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Waiting for him to talk to you first may not be the best idea as he may not be that open to strangers. When I lived with my German housemate, he told me how he did not like it when I did not open the window to “let the air out”. He found it strange that I said “I don’t know” or “maybe” which basically meant “no” for me. Germans are direct and they expect you to be the same. ) When you look around in Germany, you can see girls wear what they want to wear regardless of their body size. German guys care about their appearance: they dress properly when they go out; they like wearing shirts; they make sure their hair looks good; they do not go out with shorts and slippers, even just for a trip to the supermarkets outside.
He told me he did not like the food I was eating when I tried to share with him. They will not understand it if you say “A” but you actually mean “B”. With that said, if you date a Germany guy, he expects you to take care of your appearance as well. But at a minimum, you need to look decent when you go out. They do not think that women are weak comparing to men.
Therefore, I guess it depends on your luck in the end. In Hong Kong, if we meet with a friend, we can expect a 10 to 15 minutes delay, which is pretty normal.
The more the number of people, the more will be the delay.
Therefore, I also come a bit later to avoid too much waiting time. If you have a meeting at 1 pm, the German people here really mean 1 pm. Strangers talk to each other in the shops, on the plane, in the elevator, etc. But most of the time, this kind of small talk is only limited to very superficial topics. It is hard to get to know them at the beginning because they may not look super excited and may not initiate talking with you if they do not know you.
After living here for some years, I get used to being punctual. There is no such thing that girls should arrive a bit later to “let the guy wait”. It is hard to really be closed with the Americans and to have a more meaningful conversation. However, once you get to know them, they will treat you as real friends.
And when I visited Hong Kong and met my friends again, I was shocked that I was the only one who arrived on time. They will open themselves up and have a meaningful conversation with you rather than staying at a superficial level. Comparing to Americans who like to sugar-coat their words, Germans say what they really think.
So, if you see a German guy who is interesting to you, be proactive and try to initiate a conversation with him. If they do not like something, they will let you know it. If you date a German guy, he will not find it attractive if you try to hide your “weakness”. Be confident of yourself and that makes you more attractive.
Even though you can still find German guys online who are seeking for a serious relationship, you may also encounter guys who are purely looking for sex.
Though not very common, there are also examples that men stay at home as housemen, especially when their wives earn good money.
Another example is that men and women also share the responsibility of raising a kid. The man will also help in terms of changing diapers, feeding and taking care of the kid.
It is common that young people move out of their family when they turn into adults (about 18 years old).
Especially when people go to university, most of them will move out from home.
So, if you date a German guy, expect some honest feedback from him. He will tell you his true thinking and expect to get along with you in an open way. If you see a girl who is a little fat and wears a short skirt, you will hear people talking about her from behind. ” It is not uncommon for girls to cover up themselves because they do not want to “expose their weakness”. In general, people do not associate gender with special roles in Germany. When it comes to taking care of the household, it is not just the job of a woman.